The hidden cost of capturing sacred ceremony..why some memories should be kept private .

In our increasingly digital world, a pressing question arises: Does every event, ceremony, or healing experience need to be documented? The prevalence of photos and videos capturing these intimate moments has, in many ways, spiraled out of control. What once served as a means to remember and share significant milestones has now become a distraction that detracts from the essence of the experience itself.

The act of healing should be a deeply personal journey, not a public spectacle.

While I believe in the importance of sharing the positive work we do, there’s a difference between sharing and showcasing. Instead of pulling out a camera during a ceremony, why not allow the practitioners to share their insights and experiences afterward? This alternative approach respects the sacredness of the moment without the intrusion of a lens.

In many traditions, the most revered healers, such as shamans, often refrain from documenting their practices. They rely on word of mouth and the readiness of the soul to guide seekers to them, rather than social media presence. My own most transformative experience occurred when my phone was collected at the door and securely stored until the ceremony concluded. That space, free from digital distractions, became a life-altering moment, meant solely for personal reflection and growth.

Filming spiritual or religious ceremonies can disrupt the flow and energy of the event.

The mere presence of a camera introduces an artificiality, transforming a sacred moment into a performance for an audience. We must cultivate a culture of respect for one another's experiences. Even if someone grants permission to film, it’s worthwhile to consider whether they genuinely wish to share that moment or if they are simply being polite.

When we choose to keep these sacred moments private, we honor their true significance. It is about creating meaningful experiences that resonate deeply within us, and the most profound moments often exist beyond the reach of social media.

I hope this blog encourages you to reconsider the necessity of documenting sacred experiences. I would love to hear your thoughts on this important topic, as your perspective is invaluable in this ongoing conversation.